HOW TO MODIFY ONE’S THINKING AND EMOTIONS TOWARDS BETTERMENT

 

• FORGET THE PAST; PAST CANNOT BE CHANGED.
• DONOT WORRY ABOUT THE FUTURE; FUTURE CAN NOT BE PREDICTED BY ANY MEANS.
• LIVE IN PRESENT; PRESENT IS VERY MUCH WITH YOU.
• TAKE EVERYTHING EQUALLY.
• TAKE EVERYTHING POSITIVELY.
• WHAT EVER HAPPENS IS HAPPENING FOR GOOD ONLY.
• DO THE BEST OF YOUR ABILITY; LEAVE THE RESULT TO GOD.
• OFFER EACH AND EVERYTHING TO GOD
• PATIENCE, PERESEVERATION (HARD WORK) AND PURITY WILL HELP US TO OVERCOME DIFFICULTIES.

• THERE IS NO SUBSTITUTE FOR HARD WORK IN THIS WORLD.
• YOU CAN, IF YOU THINK YOU CAN.
• DO NOT EXPECT ANYTHING FROM OTHERS; THEN THERE WON’T BE ANY DISAPPOINMENTS.

• DO NOT COMPARE YOURSELF WITH OTHERS. BECAUSE, YOU ARE UNIQUE IN GOD’S CREATION.

• ACCEPT THINGS / EVENTS / EXPERIENCES AS THEY ARE. THEN, THERE WON’T BE ANY NEGATIVE FEELINGS.

• WHEN WE PRAY GOD WHOLEHEARTEDLY, WITH UN-QUESTIONABLE FAITH IN HIM AND ABSOLUTE SURRENDER TO HIM, MIRACLES DO HAPPEN AND OUR PROBLEMS WILL GET RESOLVED IN NO TIME.

• WE SHOULD NOT BE PROUD OF OUR BODY, MIND, SENSES AND INTELLECT, WEALTH, POWER; STATUS ETC BECAUSE ALL ARE GIVEN BY GOD AND EVEN THE OPPORTUNITIES ARE GIVEN BY GOD.WHEN WE PRAY TO HIM WITH PURE MIND, GOD WILL REORGANIZE THINGS AND CIRCUMSTANCES IN SUCH A WAY THAT OUR PRAYERS ARE ANSWERED TO OUR FAVOUR.

• UPHOLD THE HIGHER PRINCIPLE OF VIRTUES, EVEN UNDER DURESS.

• PRAYER LEADS THE DEVOTEE TO THE HIGHER PLANE OF SALVATION.

• ONE CAN REST ASSURED THAT GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF ALL THOSE WHO SEEK HIS GRACE.

• RECREATION AQND RELAXATION: - RELAX THROUGH LIKE MUSIC, ARTS, SPORTS, TRAVELLING, GARDENING AND OTHER HOBBIES.

• GIVE IN OCCASIONALLY: IF YOU YIELD A LITTLE, OTHERS TO WILL.

• SHUN THE SUPERMAN AND WONDER WOMAN’S URGE. DO NOT THINK THAT YOU WILL BE ABLE TO DO EVERYTHING. ACCEPT YOUR LIMITATIONS AND PICK UP THINGS WHICH YOU CAN DO WELL.

• CHARITABLE ACTIVITIES: DO SOMETHING FOR THE OTHERS: HAVE A NICE FEELING OF HAVING DONE SOME GOOD TO OTHERS. THAT WILL INCREASE YOUR SELF-CONFIDENCE

• KEEP YOURSELF AWAY FROM ALCOHAL AND OTHER INTOXICATING DRUGS.

• BE FRIENDLY WITH EVERYBODY. FRIENDSHIP REDUCES THE TENSION AND HELPS YOU TO HAVE GOODWILL OF OTHERS. EXPECT LITTLE FROM OTHERS. IF OTHERS MISBEHAVE WITH YOU, THERE MAY BE MANY REASONS FOR THAT: MINIMISE YOUR REACTIONS TO THAT.

• DEVELOP INTEREST IN CULTURAL AND SPIRITUAL ACTIVITIES WHICH WILL HELP IN INCREASING YOUR MENTAL HEALTH.
• GOD IS WITHIN YOU, ABOVE YOU, BELOW YOU, BEHIND YOU, INFRONT OF YOU, BESIDES YOU, AND HE IS EVERYWHERE.

• GOD WILL GIVE US WHATEVER WE DESERVE WITH OUR PURITY OF THOUGHT, WORD AND DEED.

• GOD THROUGH HIS REPRESENTATIVES – PARENTS, WELL WISHERS AND GOOD PEOPLE HELP US WHENEVER WE ARE IN ANY CRISIS.

• GOD CONFERS PROSPERITY, WELL BEING AND GOOD GRACES ON DEVOTEES. 

• DO YOUR DUTY IN THE WORLD, ENGAGE YOURSELF IN YOUR PROFESSION, TAKE CARE OF YOUR FAMILY RESPONSIBILITIES, BUT PERFORM ALL THESE ACTIVITIES IN THE NAME OF GOD AND FOR GOD'S SAKE. OFFER THEM ALL TO GOD. THEN, NATURALLY, GOD WILL DO WHAT IS GOOD TO US.